We sure have been doing our share of visiting! It’s part of the reason for being here this summer – to catch up with friends and family in this general vicinity. With being away for as long as we were, it is nice to reconnect with those we love!
Time in NJ wouldn’t be complete without seeing long time friends, the Infosino’s. Sadly, Ulrica had to work, so our visit was mostly with Tony. Their crew of 5 kids, now ranging in age from 16 to 22, were in and out. We always enjoy time with Tony – reminiscing about our shared high school years and bringing each other up to date on the latest “gossip”.
A day visit with our son was very productive! All his wedding attire, from his shoes up to the bow tie, has now been purchased and fits properly! It made my heart smile to see how well he cleans up! Another wedding item checked off my to-do list! He is settled nicely into his new digs, complete with some hand-me-down artwork from his Grandmother, hanging on the walls! We finished off the day with a stop for Chinese food – which was not as tasty TripAdvisor reviews led us to believe, but wasn’t bad either.
Our final visit was different from the previous two. Instead of reconnecting old ties, we made new friends. Long time blog reader Chris and her husband, Frank, drove up from Maryland to see us! It is their dream to join us in living and traveling full-time in an RV. They are currently in the planning stage, and mine is one of several Chris reads as part of her research.
Chris has been one of my most loyal readers, always making supportive and encouraging comments. For those of you that don’t blog yourselves, I’m not sure if you can fully appreciate what it means to hit the publish button and wonder if you’ve said anything that anyone will want to read. The only way we (bloggers) know that what we are typing, the words we pour out onto virtual paper, is being well received is by getting feedback. That feedback usually comes in the form of a comment. Comments are like icing on a bloggers cake!
This isn’t the first time we’ve met a blog reader. While traveling out of Alaska last year, we were invited to stay with Helen & Pat, on their driveway near Calgary. Meeting them was such a great experience, I was hoping to have that again.
Of course, even though Chris and I have corresponded through blog comments and later in emails, and I had gotten a good “vibe”, I had a bit of anxiety about meeting in person. Why?
First, there is the husbands issue – will they get along? Bill is fairly easy going, can make most people feel at ease, but you just never know, not everyone likes everyone, right?
Second, I was feeling a bit of “will meeting in person solidify a friendship”, contrasted with a fear that she would feel “wow – in person didn’t meet up to the hype”. I seriously do not mean to toot my own horn with that statement, I really don’t, but it’s very humbling to have someone who only knows you through your written word (especially when you aren’t always confident on those writing abilities) want to drive, on their one of two days off, 2 1/2 to 3 hours EACH WAY, to meet you. No pressure though! If getting a nice comment on my blog is icing on the cake – this was going to be the caramel, whip cream, cherry, and cookie crumbles on the sundae!
Further down the list of possibilities was a teeny tiny thought – what if they were just weirdos? Ha – no I didn’t really think that at all! If that had even been a teeny tiny possibility – I would never have invited them to my home – which is also my place of work right now.
Well – all that fretting for nothing! Husbands got along like guys who’ve know each other for years and for me – I’d say Chris and I leaned much closer to the solidify a friendship side of the above equation – and I hope I’m right when I say I think the feeling is mutual.
We had an amazing visit! Wait! Before I say one more word! Chris brought us presents! As if driving all that way wasn’t enough! Presents! We were so speechless – and it takes a lot for that to happen to me! 😁
To say Bill and I were thankful is a huge understatement! Each gift was so thoughtful, so “us”! We were truly overwhelmed! Thank you didn’t seem like nearly enough!
In between bursts of rain, Chris and Frank got the nickel tour. We talked about what we do and they got to see first hand what it looks like to be a Workamper.
We snacked on queso and guacamole, while deciding what we wanted to do next. In spite of the raining on and off throughout the morning, but sun was trying real hard to come out, so we took a chance and headed for Ocean City. They were familiar with OC MD, but had not been to the NJ boardwalk.
While the snacks had been enough to keep the hungrys at bay a for a little while, after the decision was made to walk the Ocean City boards, I really wanted a slice of pizza from Manco & Manco. The weather was warm and humid, and a bit hazy. There was a perfect ocean breeze blowing our hair back as we walked. Curley Fries and Kohrs Bros were also stopped at before we headed back.
Sadly, Bill and I needed to start work at 5, so Chris and Franks started their journey back to MD. It was truly awesome meeting them and (hopefully) we were able to help them by talking with them and answering questions about the full-time RV lifestyle. I’ve said it before, the #1 reason I do my blog is for me, second is for family and friends, and third is to pay it forward – there are plenty of others who’ve gone before us, and who continue to teach us things. It’s only fair to give back what little I can. It is very rewarding when I get to hear first hand in person that I’ve helped someone.
It doesn’t get a whole lot better than that!